I have to go to Sydney for a while. I will be online there but I might not be posting much, it all depends.
Things are not working for DH and I, being in different cities. I feel lousy about leaving the cats for the second time in less than a week, but they have a nice cat sitter who will look after them (they both said hello to her, which I saw as a good sign!). All my hard work in the garden, getting things under control in a few areas will also be destroyed, but if I don't go then I won't have a marriage....
If it looks like we can get things back together, I'll be moving there but coming home every few weeks to get more house stuff fixed up. I have no idea what I'll be doing about the cats.
I will be back home next week, but after that I have no idea.
It is really quite difficult living in uncertainty. I've been living with it for years. I find it very stressful. Taking things one day at a time is helpful but there are some things you absolutely must plan. And there are some certainties that I expect and have enjoyed for over 10 years now, and suddenly BOOM! Gone....