Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Offline for a bit, most likely

G'day all!

I have to go to Sydney for a while. I will be online there but I might not be posting much, it all depends.

Things are not working for DH and I, being in different cities. I feel lousy about leaving the cats for the second time in less than a week, but they have a nice cat sitter who will look after them (they both said hello to her, which I saw as a good sign!). All my hard work in the garden, getting things under control in a few areas will also be destroyed, but if I don't go then I won't have a marriage....

If it looks like we can get things back together, I'll be moving there but coming home every few weeks to get more house stuff fixed up. I have no idea what I'll be doing about the cats.

I will be back home next week, but after that I have no idea.

It is really quite difficult living in uncertainty. I've been living with it for years. I find it very stressful. Taking things one day at a time is helpful but there are some things you absolutely must plan. And there are some certainties that I expect and have enjoyed for over 10 years now, and suddenly BOOM! Gone....

anon!

16 comments:

  1. Hug. Hope it goes ok.

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  2. Sending Labrador hugs and tail wags to you, even the cats from Peri, but Gilly would woof at them. Take care.

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  3. Oh, Chickie, all the best with your endeavours!! Big hugs and happy vibes from all the way over here. xox

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  4. Go well. Uncertainty is a hard place to live. You know what matters most to you - I hope you can make it work.

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  5. Hi Lynne, So sorry that you now have difficult decisions to make re your future. You've done such a remarkable job this past year, always looking on the bright side while fighting for a return to better health, so I hope whatever decision you make for your future will have a happy outcome for YOU and that it will bring you only golden days. Sending my best wishes xx

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  6. Dear Lynne Im thinking of you and I know you are a beautiful and strong person and will make the right decisons for you and yours,take care

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  7. Oh I do so hope everything can get sorted out and back on an even keel. you most certainly deserve it.

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  8. Lynne,

    I'll be thinking of you, and hoping that things get sorted out in the best way possible for you. You've been an inspiration as you've worked through recovery. I wish you only and always the best!

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  9. Hoping things work out Lynne. Alison

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  10. Lynne, I do hope things sort out for you, as you truly deserve a break. Your strength and determination are great and inspiring, so I send you every positive thought.

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  11. Dear world,
    Lynne has had more horrid stuff happen to her in the last few years than anyone should have to cope with in a lifetime. Can't you give her a break?

    Dear Lynne,
    Hugs from me to you - I was hoping for a better year for you ...

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  12. Hugs to you. Will keep you in my thoughts & prayers.

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  13. Take care, Lynne and I wish you well.

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  14. I hope it goes well! Huge Hugs for you!! I know exactly what you mean about uncertainty.

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  15. Well I guessed thats life, everything are always following the cycle and the law of nature.


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  16. Lynnie, if anyone can make this work it's you. We still miss you in Campbell. =(

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